What Is A ‘Soul Contract’ And What Happens If I Break Mine?
For Starters, what is a soul contract?:
By astrologically choosing the time and place of your birth, you determine the nature of the effects you will experience in your life. In our ‘Spirit/energetic’ form on the other side (which means the fourth or fifth dimension) before we are born, we make decisions about the lifetime we will be entering into. The interaction with other souls, choice of parents, etc, is determined by the Astrological configurations at birth. Hence, your character, personality, talents, abilities, restrictions and timing for strengths and weaknesses will be formed from birth.
Its good to know what kind of soul contract you have between your partner, mother, brother, best friend. Soul contracts are great to have a loving connections amongst people, they help create growth, transformation and unconditional love. Knowing the soul contracts you have will help you create a more successful relationship.
Here is the kicker: It can sometimes be painful for you to achieve your dreams and relationships goals if you’re in a certain soul contract.
When a soul contract blocks your path in life it can be very distressing. I have known many people who have tried to make their business a success or find their true love, yet nothing worked for them. Cases like this, what’s often standing in the way? Yep, you guessed it, a soul contract.
We have listed below some of the more common soul contracts people might have, and what may happen if you choose to break those soul contracts.
5 Known Types of Soul Contracts:
1. The Soul Contract of Martyrdom
Are you a ‘Yes-man’? Do you find it’s easier to give in all the time? If you do, you’re probably putting your own needs and desires on the back burner to help others. You do it even when it’s inconvenient or causes you major hassles. You probably feel that in order to be a good person you need to sacrifice your own needs in order to make others happy. But, that is not actually true. Especially in every circumstance. If you are putting yourself last than you are probably feeling frustrated with your life. I bet you feel like no one appreciates you or even realizes that you’re tired and exhausted. Am I right?
If so, this is how the soul contract of Martyrdom manifests. And you know what? It’s not pretty. If you were to break this soul agreement, it will permit you to make better decisions, so you can help when you feel the moment is right. You will begin to take better care of yourself while you are giving to others. It will allow you to live a more balanced life.
2. Soul Contract of Loyalty
With the loyalty soul contract, you always stand by your lover, parent, boss, whomever. No, it does not matter how they treat you. You feel you have no choice but stand by them no matter what. This soul contract creates scenarios where you are getting walked all over by your loved ones. You want to change things or have tried leaving the relationship but could not because you didn’t want to abandon them.
Once you release this soul contract you will be confident to make improvements in your relationships, even if you have struggled to make those changes for years. (Like leaving your partner or leaving your job) The hold these people had over you for years will be removed and you can live YOUR life for YOU for a change.
3. Soul Contracts of Loneliness
Are you someone who is looking for their soul mate throughout your whole life? You have relationship after relationship that always ends in failure, heartbreak and sadness. You have tried everything from blind dates to online dating. There may actually be many different contracts standing in the way to find true love. The soul contract of loneliness is one of the most difficult to deal with.
Even though at times you feel you have found someone wonderful, you still have that lonely feeling, unsupported and separate. When you release this contract you can finally feel the support and love you deserve.
4. Soul Contract – Anxiety
Are you someone who always feels anxious, worried or nervous? Are you worried ALL THE TIME about even the littlest of things? Do you feel intense anxiety often, especially when it comes to the future and what could potentially happen? Then your soul may be stuck with the Anxiety Soul Contract.
When you do release this soul contract, you will find that you are more in touch with yourself and intuition. Now you know what’s really coming along for you is what’s meant to happen anyway, and there is no need to be worried or nervous.
5. Soul Contract – When the Boat Rocks
You always feel afraid, or even just afraid to be seen in public. You don’t want to break any rules whatsoever. You don’t even want others to know that you’re reading this article right now. The trait of this contract is based on self-preservation.
When you finally remove this soul contract, things start to open up for you. You will begin to blaze your own path without any fear.
How To Release and Clear Soul Contracts
You need to realize that you can’t simply break any soul contract that you want any time you want. It won’t work that way. First you have to understand how this contract hindered and served you. You need to understand the problem before you can break it.
Your next step would be to understand how this soul contract rears its ugly head into your life. You need to be aware what is really going on, so you can take your time and see if any of these soul contracts are affecting you.
When you have perfected the awareness part, a new part will show up. Being aware of the soul contracts brings the moment of clarity. Whenever there is a event taking place you will notice a little pause before you give your answer, so take your time and decide.
Whenever you sense you have handle on this contract, you realize where it shows up and how it’s affecting your life. After you have been working on making the decisions, you can now speed up and increase the release by writing about it. Automatic writing can be really successful too! Research it!
Generally, there is no right or wrong choice here. Whatever works. Its a process to realize the soul contract is around, to be aware of the pattern and why it’s showing up in your life, then taking action to release it.